“For Zion’s sake, I will not be silent; for Jerusalem’s sake, I will not be quiet.” There is a compelling discussion that is launched with the images behind the Readings today on this beautiful sabbath of the Lord. It revolves around the seriously impending concern about the decline of marriage in the relationship of grown adults, many of whom have chosen simply to live together with little or no commitment for a wide variety of given reasons. For this reason, the depth and long-lasting beauty of the images provided that reveal the type and breadth of the relationship that God wants of us would only be truly understood in the context of a marital vow: “For the LORD delights in you and makes your land his spouse. As a young man marries a virgin, your Builder shall marry you; and as a bridegroom rejoices in his bride, so shall your God rejoice in you.”
God has a unique and wonderful plan for each and everyone of us and that purpose is always for the good for the individual and for the world. By that same token, each has been given specific gifts and graces to accomplish the plan that they have been assigned and freely given. “To each individual, the manifestation of the Spirit is given for some benefit.” Adequately speaking, if everyone understood, accepted, and then carried out this remarkable teaching, then the world would be a very different and amazing place to live, beyond all of our most optimistic imaginings. As this is true between two people in love and the families they bring into existence, so it is true in the Church and in society. This brings us to the Wedding Feast of Cana, where Jesus takes six stone water jars holding about 25 gallons each and turns water into wine. Although this is the caterer’s dream come true, the number clearly refers back to the six days of creation as described in Genesis of which St. John was completely affected and versed. The great number of actual wine bottles such a miraculous moment would have created, more than 800 or so, is an even more stellar symbol of the overflowing love that God has for us, total, complete, committed, and faithful until death, just like marriage. “Everyone serves good wine first, and then when people have drunk freely, an inferior one, but you have kept the good wine until now.”
“One of the highest representations of the image of God is a husband and wife serving each other.” Dr. Tim Kimmel