“Blessed is the LORD who has not failed to provide you today with an heir!” In the powerfully healing and inspiring work of drug and alcohol rehabilitation, for those seeking sobriety and a new chance of living in a drug-free world, free from narcissistic tendencies and catastrophes, there is always a Sponsor. This can be someone who has lived with an addict, raised by an addict, or may even have been an addict themselves. Some have called them “guardian Angels” for the immense work they provide and the hope they bring to those who have lost it. What they do will have ramifications for subsequent generations and affect countless lives. At the end of our First Reading, we realize why the relationship between Ruth and Naomi was so important: “And the neighbor women gave him his name, at the news that a grandson had been born to Naomi. They called him Obed. He was the father of Jesse, the father of David.” And Jesus our Savior was born into the House of David!
“As for you, do not be called ‘Rabbi.’ You have but one teacher, and you are all brothers. Call no one on earth your father; you have but one Father in heaven. Do not be called ‘Master’; you have but one master, the Christ.” Here is the issue before us today: everyone already knows or is familiar with God or a god. Everyone has already set a system and a list of priorities in their lives, and whoever occupies the very top position is their God or a god. The message once again for us is clear and simple: DO NOT MAKE ANYONE OR ANYTHING YOUR GOD. If we make God our first priority, then we can be assured of a deep level of peace and joy that radiates in and through and all around us. If we have something or someone else in that top position, then we can be relatively promised of a rough turn of events and a life that cannot and will not sustain everlasting happiness.
“The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism. The narcissistic orientation is one in which one experiences as real only that which exists within oneself, while the phenomena in the outside world have no reality in themselves, but are experienced only from the viewpoint of their being useful or dangerous to one. The opposite pole to narcissism is objectivity; it is the faculty to see other people and things as they are, objectively, and to be able to separate this objective picture from a picture that is formed by one’s desires and fears.” Erich Fromm