The Tower of Babel is the penultimate metaphor of people trying to reach heaven without the assistance of God. That is precisely why they were thrown into a huge and overwhelming state of confusion where no one could understand each other. That scene prepared us for Pentecost and the Gifts of the Holy Spirit, which endow us with the potential to understand everyone in their spheres of life because of the presence of Love in their lives. Thus the reference in the Gospel is made to the tower that someone starts to build but cannot finish.
“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.” Is this a battle too hard to win? The answer is an absolute “no!” This is not about suffering for its own sake but about the impending confrontation that each of us has with death. Will we be ready? It is time for “peace terms.” Thus, the Gospel of today gives us the specifics of those terms. Before the final call, you and I must be sufficiently detached from this world but at the same time attached to living in the world, walking in the light of truth. That is what is precisely meant about denying our very selves and following the path of life that Jesus placed before us and renewing every morning. How is that done? “I call you my friends, says the Lord, for I have made known to you all that the Father has told me.” We are simply called to love in the power of the Holy Spirit, freely given to those who love in the name of Jesus the Lord.
“If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive.” St. Teresa of Calcutta